When To Give Up On Your Unsuitable Partner
You have literally given it your all. You have tried talking and you have even gone to counseling yet nothing is solving the problem. This might have led you to consider leaving the relationship and even though things are not working well, you are still not sure whether it is the right thing to do or not. Well, sometimes giving up on a relationship is the best thing to do, since it might be your partner who is unsuitable. In this article, we are going to look at when to give up on your partner so that you can decide whether leaving the relationship is right for you.
You and Your Partner have different Life Goals
Our life goals may affect our relationships in many ways. For instance, you may want to have a family at 30 but your partner does not want this. This might get in your way of having a happy life. You may try to work things out but end up in the same place. In such a case, you feel you love them too much to split up but you still want children. If you do not want to reconcile yourself to never having children, then it might be time to move on and find a partner who wants the same things that you do.
You keep Hoping That Things Will Get Better But They Never Do
In such cases, you may feel deep down that you need to give up on your partner but you keep hoping that things will get better. Most men and women stay in unhealthy relationships and loveless marriages for years and years, hoping that things will improve.
Here’s the thing, if you have been unhappy for some of months and it looks as if things are not getting better, then it maybe time to give up on your partner.
Your partner Does Not Care About Working Things Out.
Do you feel lonely in your relationship? Does it seem as if your partner doesn’t really respect or love you? Do you find you are the only one who wants to work things out? This is another common problem that people have with their partners; they just don’t seem caring enough to say “I love you” let alone building a strong and healthy relationship.
If your partner does not want to play their part in working things out, then it’s maybe time to give up on them. Keep in mind that you cannot create a strong, healthy relationship all by yourself.